I salute you Rosie Batty

Australia Day 2015 marks an important era as four unique women accepted awards on the lawns of Parliament House,Canberra yesterday. Australia’s Local Hero of the Year Juliette Wright-Social entrepreneur, Young Australian of the Year Drisana Levitzke-Gray-Deaf Advocate, Senior Australian of the Year-Jackie French-author and my favourite Australian of the Year-Rosie Batty-Domestic Violence Campaigner.

I will focus on Rosie for a few reasons; as she has found her voice, and now a platform (Australian of the Year) as a victim of domestic violence in the cruelest of circumstances. She dedicated the award to her son Luke, and in her acceptance speech, vowed that her son’s death would not be in vain. This woman has been through the unimaginable loss of her young son, by her ex partner in a public place on February 12th 2014, here she is almost 12 months later, accepting the nations most prestigious award.

As a bereaved mother myself I share her pain, and her loss and part of her grief, I cannot profess to possibly understand how she has grieved that loss. I have never lost my son to a domestic violence dispute thank god, but I have lost a son to childhood cancer. Rosie has an opportunity, to act on behalf of the thousands of women that don’t have a voice in domestic violence. She is a role model and an inspiration to women all around the world, for she decided not to sit back, she took action, she spoke about her experience in main stream media, and people started to listen.

I hope that Rosie inspires many more Australian women in all walks of life to take action, we need role models & we need leaders. These are ordinary people doing extraordinary things. Rosie Batty has certainly inspired and empowered me. Who has inspired you? Leave your comments, let’s start the conversation.

You can read more about Rosie’s story here http://www.themonthly.com.au/issue/2014/october/1412085600/helen-garner/mother-courage

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The Soul Project

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The Soul Project  will be a collection of stories and poems written by other bereaved parents that have also suffered the loss of a child through illness, stillbirth, neonatal loss and early pregnancy loss.This will culminate in the Women’s and Children’s Paediatric Palliative Care Service (PPCS) 15th year of service. This book needs contributors for it to go ahead.

I will be on the look out for Beta Readers and other input for the book as well. The title of the book is yet to be decided.

*NB This book will be focusing on bereaved parents whose children have been patients or the families have received support from the Women’s and Children’s Hospital in Adelaide.

If you would like to find out more please sign up below to keep in the loop. Or you can email me direct jackie_barreau@live.com.au for more information on the submission process.

Reflections

It has been a strange experience, now my book has been published. It has allowed others to share in some way my experience first-hand, my grief and the emotions that come with such a devastating and heart-breaking loss.

I wanted to convey the raw emotion and love through my writing, and I think I have accomplished that. It is an experience that has had a profound affect on me personally, and spiritually, our lives have forever been changed by the deaths of our two sons.

It was brought to my attention just recently that this moving tribute to our boys has also left a legacy in their memory forever etched in each page of my book.

‘Sometimes we need to reach deep within our souls to find the answer.’ – anonymous

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